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Engagement Ring as a Present? Internet Says Nope! 🎅

The concept of Christmas. A man makes a marriage proposal to a woman on the background of a decorated Christmas tree on a holiday in a luxury house in winter. A couple in love in elegant outfits celebrates the holiday together

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Does an Engagement Ring Count as a Christmas Gift? Reddit users say NO!

Christmas proposals are romantic. The lights, the family, the magic—it’s the perfect backdrop for popping the question. But one guy’s holiday plan has the internet fired up.

Here’s the story: A woman posted on a Reddit forum about her friend “Harry.” Harry wants to propose to his girlfriend on Christmas morning, surrounded by her family. Cute, right?

Here’s the twist: Harry also plans to count the engagement ring as her Christmas gift. No other presents. Just the ring.

His friend told him that an engagement isn’t the same as a gift. It’s a mutual decision, not something you wrap and put under the tree. Reddit commenters agreed—and they didn’t hold back.

Most said Harry’s move makes the proposal sound like he’s doing her a favor. Others pointed out that skipping a Christmas gift could make the whole moment feel less special.

Bottom line: If you’re planning a holiday proposal, great! But maybe grab a little something extra for under the tree. It doesn’t have to be big—just thoughtful. Because the ring? That’s about your future together, not Christmas morning.

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